Kennesaw, GA – Good Friends
“I have friends in overalls whose friendship I would not swap for the favor of the kings of the world” – Thomas A. Edison.
In the age of social media, remember it’s the quality of the few good relationships than the quantity of your “contacts”.
#Encouragement
Bryan Wilson
Rome, GA – ¿Qué es lo que realmente quieres?
En definitiva, tu éxito o fracaso depende de tu capacidad para aceptar tus debilidades, dejar de lado tu ego y aprender a convertirte en quien realmente quieres ser para tener éxito.
#Conócete a ti mismo primero
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PD. Un saludo a mi joven amigo, Mac Hunt. Lo he visto crecer hasta convertirse en una persona excelente y genuina.
Rome, GA – What do you really want?
Ultimately, your success or failure is dependent on your ability to accept your weaknesses, put aside your ego, and learn to become who you really want to be to succeed.
#Know thyself first
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PS. Shout out to my young friend, Mac Hunt. I have watched him grow up into a fine, genuine person.
Kennesaw, GA – Regrets
A survey of hospice patients found their top 3 Regrets were:
1. Having an unhealthy addiction to accumulate material things rather than creating memories through meaningful experiences and deep relationships
2. Procrastinating doing what you really want to do as soon as possible (spend whatever time is necessary to find out what you really want and why?), and
3. Being prideful by worrying about what others might think or say. In the end, who really cares what others might think as long as you aren’t physically hurting yourself or anyone else.
We are given only a short time on the earth as it is, why not pursue what truly makes you happy now and not wait until later or worry about appearances.
It costs you nothing to be kind, love is a reciprocal phenomena and it’s easier to find more time when you aren’t burdened with lots of material things to acquire and maintain.
#VirtuousLife #Encouragement
Kennesaw, GA – Small positive steps over time accumulate to lifetime success
Take a moment to watch this short video posted by a physician who uses this video from an NBA Hall of Famer on incrementally improving every day. Enjoy!
#Encouragement
Bryan
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Acworth, GA – Time is precious
I keep an old Elgin pocket watch on my desk in an antique walnut stand to remind me that time is a most valuable resource. The engineering and technology that went into building the watch in 1910 was pretty incredible when you remember that most cities were still connected by dirt roads, horse drawn wagons, and maybe a railroad if you were lucky.
Everyone has the same amount of time but how we spend it is very important. Just think how many technologies have been introduced to save us time. Like Ben Franklin used to say about pennies, if we are cognizant of our minutes, the hours seem to take care of themselves.
Spend your time wisely.
#Encouragement
Bryan
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Acworth, GA – Destiny
What does destiny mean to you? Can your “destiny” be changed or altered?
If something today changes the end result of one’s life, then which “destiny” is accurate? The before or after? The future has changed. So we do choose our destiny by our behavior.
Our destiny adapts to the choices and decisions that we make in the present. External circumstances can affect our destiny but it is how we react to our environment around us that determines our future.
The Timeline…
“Past” choices and decisions affect the “Present” environment which has “Future” consequences
Our future self changes constantly by the present environment. The past is a collection of previous decisions and choices.
The dictionary defines “environment” as “surroundings or conditions in which a person, animal, or plant lives or operates in the natural world”. Therefore natural activities affect our current environment.
We change our destiny every time we make a conscious choice or decision.
Be deliberate and intentional when creating your future.
#ChooseWisdom #SeekKnowledge #EncourageExcellence
Bryan
Kennesaw, GA – Sobre el capitalismo
Claro que hay problemas con el capitalismo y la economía de consumo, pero ¿dónde están las alternativas que han demostrado ser mejores?
La mayoría de las veces, ha sido “juguetear” con la economía de libre mercado lo que ha causado la mayoría de los problemas.
He estado leyendo un pequeño libro fantástico de Cliff Oxford titulado “Lambs to Leaders”, donde él da a los estudiantes de artes liberales como yo una introducción sobre cómo dirigir las empresas estadounidenses y los negocios internacionales en nuestro mundo global.
El capitalismo no es ciencia espacial. En el fondo, es muy básico, con reglas y fórmulas sencillas. Aplícate a ganar confianza a través del conocimiento y no te decepcionarás.
#Ánimo
Kennesaw, GA – On Capitalism
Sure there are problems with Capitalism and the consumer economy but where are the alternatives that have been proven to be any better?
Most of the time, it’s been “tinkering” with the free market economy that has caused most of the issues.
I’ve been reading a great little book by Cliff Oxford entitled “Lambs to Leaders” where he gives liberal arts majors like me a primer on how to navigate corporate America and international business in our global world.
Capitalism isn’t rocket science. At its core, it’s very basic with simple rules and formulas. Apply yourself to gaining confidence through knowledge and you will not be disappointed.
#Encouragement
Rome, GA – A Familiar Stranger, a short story
Edwin sat on a bench in Marietta Square, staring at the fountain waiting for his beautiful young girlfriend to join him. It was a stunning fall afternoon and Edwin was feeling lost and confused about his future. He had graduated two years earlier from an elite college with a degree in computer science and a minor in international business but didn’t know what he wanted to do with his life. He had always dreamed of starting his own tech company, but he was afraid of failing.
As Edwin was sitting there in the sunshine among the huge oak trees, he saw an older gentleman sitting on a bench across from him and sensed that the man was studying him, not staring but definitely observing him closely. The older man looked familiar, except his hair was graying, wore glasses and had a few wrinkles on his face. He was well dressed with a smart Harris tweed jacket, plaid Burberry scarf and polished Chelsea boots. The clothes seemed vintage but meticulously cared for.
“Hello,” said the older man. “My name is Edwin.”
“Hi,” said the young man. “That’s so interesting, my name is also Edwin. It’s a family name given to me from my parents in Peru.”
“It’s nice to meet you, Edwin,” said the older gentleman. “I already know all about you because I’m from the future.”
The young Edwin was immediately sceptical and confused. “What do you mean, from the future?”
“I mean I’m from the year 2053,” said the older Edwin. “I came back here to this very bench on the Square to give you some important advice and to encourage you.”
The young Edwin was stunned. He didn’t know what to say. Although it seemed surreal and complex, the conversation seemed easy and the colloquium was familiar.
“I know you’re feeling lost and confused about your future,” said the older Edwin. “I was in the same frame of mind when I was your age and remembered this was a favorite place to visit when you wanted to think. But I came here today to tell you that everything is going to be okay. You’re going to accomplish great things, Edwin.”
“How do you know that?” asked Edwin. “I mean, did you travel back in time just to talk to me?”
“Because I am you,” said the older Edwin. “I’ve already lived your life. I know the choices you’re going to make and the mistakes you’re going to make. But I also know the highs and lows you’re going to experience. You’re going to be a great success and impact millions of people.”
The young man was startled and starting to believe him. “What should I do?” The young Edwin asked.
“Don’t be afraid to fail,” said the older Edwin. “Failure is a part of our success. It’s how you learn and grow. So don’t be afraid to take risks. And don’t be afraid to follow your dreams. Encourage others to achieve their fullest potential and they will become your future. Relationships are what makes your life complete. Not material things.”
“I’ll try to do what you say,” said the young Edwin. “But I worry about the future, the state of the economy and the uncertainty all around us. I want to make a difference in the world.”
“I know that you will,” said the older Edwin. “And I know you’re going to do great things.”
The older man stood up and started to walk away.
“Wait,” said the young Edwin. “Can I ask you just one more question?”
“Of course,” said the older gentleman.
“What’s The most important thing I should remember?” asked the young man.
The older Edwin smiled. “The most important thing you should remember is that you’re never alone,” he said. “No matter what happens, you have your relationships. And that’s all you need. Your personal relationship with the Creator and having a loving family and good friends are vitally important.”
The older Edwin stood up, turned and walked away, leaving the young man sitting on the bench. Young Edwin watched him for a few minutes, and he felt a sense of peace and confidence that he hadn’t felt in a long time. He knew that everything was going to be okay. He was going to do great things.
The young Edwin got up from the bench and started to walk home. He thought about what the older Edwin had said to him. He knew that his older self was right. He shouldn’t be afraid to fail. He should take risks and follow his dreams. And he should never forget that he was never alone. He had himself, his friends and family.
The young Edwin turned to see his girlfriend approaching from across the street. Edwin took her hand and walked home with a little extra spring in his step. He knew that he was going to be okay. He was going to do great things. His mind became calmer and he no longer felt uncomfortable about his future. It was in his hands to shape his life into whatever form he wanted.
#Encouragement
Bryan E. Wilson 